Why I Think Woman Cheat/ Five Things to think About

     In society today there's a stigma! That men cheat more then woman! But the truth is woman are better at hiding it and woman will take it to there grave. Period point blank woman are better cheaters then men, however 9 times out of 10 if we cheat it's for emotional reasons or just feeling neglected. Either way here are my reason to why! 

• Lack of attention; Woman will like you to death but if ur not showing her any attention your feeding her insecurities therefore she's going to seek attention elsewhere. It sounds cliche but hey it's true! Well my truth that is.
• Lack of Romance; Guys so many times you will court the heck out of a girl until they actually get the prize! uhhhh who told you it was time to get comfortable nope? You have to do what you did to get her plus, it is actually time to deliver. Otherwise you'll began to rub off as cheap and BOOORING!
• Lack of sex; Ok if you've got a girl who you were going at it with in the bedroom, car, park wherever and it was consistently and frequently,  then all of a sudden it STOPS! She's not going to be to receptive to that, it'll just heighten her frustration and have her thinking of all her old flings. WOMAN LIKE SEX TOO, we just act like we don't so you'll initiate most times lol.We love a man who takes control. Oh but woman that's not always good but well talk about that later.
• Lack of trust; When your constantly accusing you will eventually  drive her to do it, hell guy or girl. it's kind of like that saying "you are what you think" well the same goes for a relationship, be confident speak life into ur relationship. Remember karma will always do it's job and the truth always comes out. I've learned it comes out cleaner when ur not looking. TRUST ME!  But really guys if you push and push and push, you'll push her right into another mans arms.
• Lack of Balls; Yea I said it! And I've been weak before, so if this is you! don't feel bad. I believe some woman may know there in some totally dead end relationship but they are afraid of being alone. Therefore instead of being a big girl and walking away they try to find what I call "The Transition Man" and men you never wanna be that guy, although I believe some guys like knowing there that guy because they DONT  have to commit. Beware of that type you'll find yourself  cheating your way out of a bad relationship just to enter another one. it's a vicious cycle.

Woman don't hate me you know it's true! If ur a perfect Patty then this may not be you, remember I said some woman. Cheating is not always sex it may be some emotional conversation, couple of dates, or it may just be plain old sex, either way it's wrong! These are just some things for you to think about. So wrap it up! Take a big girl pill! And just date if your not ready to commit. I've been a victim of cheating and it never feels good, and it's never ever respectable. 

3 Steps Closer To A Positive Mind

    Do you wake up cranky, tired, not just dreading Mondays but life in general? Looking at the day as a burden instead of a blessing? Well there's a solution to having better things to talk about, and living a happier more fulfilling life.   
     Solution 1: Stop talking about the problem and start talking about the solution as said by minister Joyce Meyer. If you are constantly talking about your problems, then you are breathing life into them! Let's take all that energy and talk about how you can solve the problem. When one dream dies instead of coming down on yourself come up with new fresh ideas. Find a friend worthy of hearing these ideas, and talk about them! It'll get you pumped up. Don't see it as a dream dying but a birth of something new. There's nothing wrong with starting over, just like the start of a new day, it's liberating! This goes for every change relationship, career, or friendship. 

    Solution 2: BEWARE of the company you keep. It's impossible to be a happy positive Patty if you constantly have a negative Nancy in you ear. I'm not saying you have to drop all your negative friends, but instead of joining them in there negative fest take the conversation in another direction ex; (man don't you just hate this job? The hours suck and the pay hasn't gone up in a year!)  You respond (No it's fine I'm just happy and grateful I have a job, so what's up for the weekend?). If that doesn't work politely ignore what there saying and take your mind to a better place. But I'm telling you now if nothing's working you might want to consider distancing yourself, rather friend.......or family! It's ur life so live it happily nothing should ever disturb your peace.
    Solution 3: Don't be afraid to talk to yourself! Yes I said it TALK TO YOURSELF! You know like a pep talk. Sometimes a good self pep talk is all we need to set the tone for a victorious day. Tell yourself or you higher power what you want out of the day! Take control of the way ur days go, there's nothing worse then waking up and letting ur day define ur thoughts. No! let your thoughts define your day. What you talk about with yourself sets the tone for greater thoughts, we are our greatest critic so let's learn to be nicer to the person in the mirror.

    These are just my humble suggestions and life experiences, I hope they help you the way they've helped me. 

Godbless.